"事与愿违"的英语怎么说呢?用 out of my expectation

"事与愿违"的英语怎么说呢?用 out of my expectation

Define 事与愿违 :[ shì yǔ yuàn wéi ]

1.things do not turn out as one wishes

例句与用法:

1.我本想随便商量一下,结果事与愿违.

I meant it to be an informal discussion,but it didn't turn out as I intended (it should).

2.我们生活中似乎有许多事与愿违的情况.

It seem that many thing in our lives go by contrary.

things go contrary to one's wishes

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